Disclaimer: This is not meant to be offensive. This blog has nothing to do with my boyfriend who is great and I'm happy to be with him. Also,I'm an open-minded person so if any of you disagree with anything message me privately. Thanks!
How to treat a woman according to me!
1. Communication - Just a "Hello,how are you?" Is awesome to hear every now and then. We do want to know the big events in your life too. Also,the silent treatment makes things worse generally. So if you have a problem try talking it out. If she seems uninterested because women can be stubborn. A. Try again or B. Let it go
2. Have eyes only for her- its okay to think another girl is pretty but don't entertain that thought anymore than that because you know the harm it could do.
3. Compliment her- when she looks nice ,when she does something nice for you or someone else,when she smells nice etc...
4. Try not to yell at her: This doesnt always apply but some women are sensitive and when you yell she becomes defensive and yells back or cries or worse the woman can overexagerrate and walk off or think things are worse when they really are not that bad.
5.Reassure her: If you love her tell her whenever you get a chance. Remind her of what you two have and what she means to you.
6. Trust her: Become her bestfriend allow her to get to know the real you.
7. Put God first. (If married, her and your future children should be second)
8. Be romantic : buy her flowers write her notes kiss her under the moonlight candlelight dinner etc...
9. Don't be too critical : A woman needs to know when she does something wrong but handle it with care and don't keep reminding her of what she did wrong. Unless you want her to feel like she can't make you happy.
10. Pay attention to her: when she talks :Listen. Spend time with her by talking and getting to know eachother.
11. Don't complain all the time. If your going to complain try to find positives to say too.
12. Don't be selfish think about her above yourself and also others.
13. Don't show off in front of your friends. This one is self explanatory. Be yourself at all times.
14. Try not to lie about anything : its easy for everyone to feel like lying to prevent getting in trouble but lying makes things worse.
15. Offer to help her. We could always use help with something.
16. Don't put her on a pedestal : she's not perfect she will make mistakes but when she does forgive her.
16.Don't allow your temper (if you have one) destroy your relationship.instead try to talk to a close guy friend or someone about what's making you angry.
17. Compromise on stuff. You will not agree on everything just try to find an agreement
18. Be fun and funny: take her to try some new food or go to a comedy show or even a free scavenger hunt. Not everything is money related. And try to find ways to make her laugh( some women don't have a sense of fun or laughter though)
19. Be affectionate while keeping your purity in tact. Hold hands a simple kiss lots of hugs.
20. Be presentable : take showers comb your hair smell good etc...
21. Spend as much time with her as you can.
22. Never stop dating her even if you marry her.
23. Pray with her and make your foundation about God
24. Try to be happy when she's around you and when your not happy try not to take it out on her.
25. Try to always Be on time.
Next Blog will be : how women should treat a man according to me.
How to treat a woman according to me!
1. Communication - Just a "Hello,how are you?" Is awesome to hear every now and then. We do want to know the big events in your life too. Also,the silent treatment makes things worse generally. So if you have a problem try talking it out. If she seems uninterested because women can be stubborn. A. Try again or B. Let it go
2. Have eyes only for her- its okay to think another girl is pretty but don't entertain that thought anymore than that because you know the harm it could do.
3. Compliment her- when she looks nice ,when she does something nice for you or someone else,when she smells nice etc...
4. Try not to yell at her: This doesnt always apply but some women are sensitive and when you yell she becomes defensive and yells back or cries or worse the woman can overexagerrate and walk off or think things are worse when they really are not that bad.
5.Reassure her: If you love her tell her whenever you get a chance. Remind her of what you two have and what she means to you.
6. Trust her: Become her bestfriend allow her to get to know the real you.
7. Put God first. (If married, her and your future children should be second)
8. Be romantic : buy her flowers write her notes kiss her under the moonlight candlelight dinner etc...
9. Don't be too critical : A woman needs to know when she does something wrong but handle it with care and don't keep reminding her of what she did wrong. Unless you want her to feel like she can't make you happy.
10. Pay attention to her: when she talks :Listen. Spend time with her by talking and getting to know eachother.
11. Don't complain all the time. If your going to complain try to find positives to say too.
12. Don't be selfish think about her above yourself and also others.
13. Don't show off in front of your friends. This one is self explanatory. Be yourself at all times.
14. Try not to lie about anything : its easy for everyone to feel like lying to prevent getting in trouble but lying makes things worse.
15. Offer to help her. We could always use help with something.
16. Don't put her on a pedestal : she's not perfect she will make mistakes but when she does forgive her.
16.Don't allow your temper (if you have one) destroy your relationship.instead try to talk to a close guy friend or someone about what's making you angry.
17. Compromise on stuff. You will not agree on everything just try to find an agreement
18. Be fun and funny: take her to try some new food or go to a comedy show or even a free scavenger hunt. Not everything is money related. And try to find ways to make her laugh( some women don't have a sense of fun or laughter though)
19. Be affectionate while keeping your purity in tact. Hold hands a simple kiss lots of hugs.
20. Be presentable : take showers comb your hair smell good etc...
21. Spend as much time with her as you can.
22. Never stop dating her even if you marry her.
23. Pray with her and make your foundation about God
24. Try to be happy when she's around you and when your not happy try not to take it out on her.
25. Try to always Be on time.
Next Blog will be : how women should treat a man according to me.
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